You know, I have been getting heaps of e-mail and people have asked a lot of the same questions. So I've taken the time to answer some of those questions:
IS YOUR SITE FOR REAL?
Very good of you to ask this question. My site is for real. The content and pictures are updated regularly. I will not give out anymore personal info on myself or family than you can see, for protection of all. This is the internet after all.
WHY ARE YOUR CHILDREN NOT LISTED WITH NCMEC OR OTHER ORGANIZATIONS?
I asked this question just the other day. This is what I was told by the NCMEC quote' To create posters for our cases, the applicant parent needs to have legal custodial rights over the children. Unfortunately, we thus cannot do posters (or posting on our website) for Hague access cases. We can do so for Hague return matters, but not for Hague access.'
HOW COULD YOU HAVE GOTTEN YOURSELF INTO SUCH A MESS?
Again another good and well-worded question. I just found myself one day in a divorce court after 10 years of marriage, financially ruined. Being told if I behaved (by Honorable Judge Louis P McDonald) and let my ex have the house, the children would not suffer. I believed him! There it all began. My Ex got the house (saved it from repossession), He had the 30k year job, by the time I had a free attorney it was to late.
In the parenting plan it was all set out, holidays, visitation etc. We shared custody of the children. Then he went to Oregon in 2001 and left the children with me full time (no child support, nothing), until that fateful day Sunday 19th August 2001 14:00hrs. He came for a visit; he left with the children never to be seen again.
DO YOU WORK? AND WHY DON'T YOU GET A PART-TIME JOB?
I am registered disabled, currently awaiting treatment for orthopedic injuries and other ailments. I am seeking employment suitable for Autistic persons. I do not smoke, drink or have much of a life, besides my husband (re-married 9th December 2006) and his two children.
WHY DON'T YOU COME BACK TO THE USA?
I was incarcerated awaiting deportation. I was deported January 7th 2003. My green card expired and I became one of America’s Non-Essential Personnel. I fought tooth and nail to stay, (I had lived in the USA all of my adult life 12 years) and had three US born children, and a father who is Naturalized living in Texas), but at the end of the day money talks…I don’t have any!
I need to resubmit my request to the US District Attorney’s Office. £285 for the I-212 plus an attorney to plead my case. It will be my fourth application. There are no guarantees and the visa waiver would only be for 60 days and can take a minimum of 6-8 months to give a yes or no answer.
I’ve even requested help appling for a presidential pardon….no response to date. Found out you cannot request a pardon outside the US or its territories.
DO YOU EXPECT US TO PAY YOUR ATTORNEY’S FEES WHILE YOU SIT BACK AND DO NOTHING?
No I do not. I am simply asking you to help if you can, if you hear of my boys...just let them know I love them. If you can't no big deal. I am now bankrupt and unable to save at the moment.
I NOTICED SOME SPELLING MISTAKES, ARE YOU STUPID?
No I am not stupid. I actually went to University, we all make mistakes, with maintaining and keeping information up to date, I do miss things. So if you see something that is wrong, please drop me an e-mail!
HOW CAN I CREATE A SITE LIKE YOU?
Very good question. Creating a website is very easy and inexpensive to do. I'd never created a website like this, before this one, and am already working on quite a few more. If you want to use the same inexpensive one that I used to create this website, it's called Dynadot Please use my referral code D6H6G9M7S7t6iM.
It is great value and easy to use. You can register your domain name and receive prompt courteous customer service if you need to. Free Templates are also available too. No previous web-building experience necessary!
Unfortunately none of this is free, finding my children and being able to rebuild our relationship is my biggest ambition. If you can find it in your heart to help, I will be eternally grateful.